Hey all. As I prepare to leave high school soon, I'm looking to improve my social game in university. Certainly not aiming to be a 'mean girl' but any advice on how to be a well-liked, popular girl in college?
There's no guaranteed formula when it comes to popularity, but there are some strategies you can employ so as to build a strong social network:
1. Join clubs or organizations: Not only will this allow you to meet people with shared interests, but it also shows that you're passionate and driven. Colleges have numerous opportunities to get involved, you just have to seek them out.
2. Strike up conversations: Don't be shy about starting conversations in class, in your dorm, during social events, or even in the cafeteria. This is something simple to do, and it could open up opportunities to make friends or network.
3. Participate in a mix of extracurricular activities: This can include varying levels of commitment, from playing on a sports team to writing for the college newspaper. Diversify your involvement so people from different circles recognize you.
4. Maintain a positive attitude: It's important to always be kind, respectful, and positive. Your personality and attitude play a significant role in how people perceive you.
5. Study in public areas: Rather than studying alone in your dorm room, consider studying in shared student spaces. This can make you seem more approachable and open to making connections.
6. Volunteer: For instance, joining a service organization can help you connect with people who are interested in making a contribution to the community.
7. Be consistent: It's not just about turning up for the first few days or weeks of college. Being present and making an effort throughout your college years is what will truly allow you to establish a solid reputation.
Remember, college isn't just about popularity, it's about making meaningful connections—sometimes a smaller, close-knit group of friends can provide a more fulfilling experience than being known by everyone on campus.
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