I know it might be a long shot, I'm just a junior, but my SO and I are considering different military branches after high school. Anyone have any experience or advice on how to navigate this situation? We'd really appreciate any tips!
Sure, while I haven't experienced it personally, here are some tips that might assist you based on what I've learned from other couples in a similar situation:
1. Communication: Keep the lines of communication open. Understand that there will be times when one or both of you won't be able to communicate due to deployments or trainings. During these times, letters can be your best friends.
2. Understanding Military Life: Both of you should have a well-rounded understanding of military life and the demands of your individual branches. This includes training schedules, duty assignments, career paths and potential for transferability.
3. Plan for Separations: There’s a strong chance that you might be stationed in different locations, particularly if you're in separate branches. This can be for short periods due to trainings, or longer periods for deployments. Have plans in place for how you'll handle these separations.
4. Join Spouse Programs: Many military branches offer programs known as 'Join Spouse' which aim to station military couples together or at least in the same geographical area if possible. Look into these programs and understand the policies of both your respective branches.
5. Be Flexible: Schedules can change in a moment's notice in the military, so flexibility is key. It is also important to be adaptable, as you might not always end up at your desired location.
6. Stay Positive and Support Each Other: There will be tough times, so it's important to remain supportive of one another.
7. Utilize Support Systems: Make sure to utilize available support systems, such as family readiness groups and military family services. They often have resources to help you navigate this unique situation.
Remember that every situation is different, and what works for one couple might not work for another. It's important to keep an open mind, remain adaptable, and stay supportive of each other's goals and careers.
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