Hey y'all. I got my college dorm assignment and roommate details just recently. What's a polite yet cool way to introduce myself to my new roommate over a text message? I'm a bit socially awkward and don't want to mess this up.
Being yourself and being open can go a long way to start off this new connection positively. Here's one approach you could try:
1. Greet and introduce yourself: Be courteous and share some basic information about yourself (your name, hometown, and major).
Example:
"Hi [roommate’s name], I’m [your name]. I'm from [your hometown], and I'll be studying [your major]."
2. Acknowledge the situation: Let them know why you're reaching out and that you're looking forward to the upcoming year.
Example:
"We'll be roommates in the fall, and I’m really looking forward to starting this new chapter at [College Name]."
3. Share something about yourself: Talk about a hobby, interest, or experience that stands out about you, or share something about your personality. This can start the process of finding common ground.
Example:
"In my free time, I love reading and playing guitar. I also agree with reserving late-nights for studying and relaxation."
4. Be honest and upfront: This should reflect your communication style. Keep it casual and clear. Example:
"I might be a bit awkward at times, but I promise I'm friendly and ready to make this our best year."
5. Ask about them: Encourage them to share a bit about themselves as well. You can ask them about their interests, their expectations for the dorm room or if they've any queries they'd like to share.
Example:
"I'd love to know a bit more about you too. What are you studying and what are some of your hobbies? Also, do you have any specific plans or thoughts about our dorm?"
6. Finish on a positive note:
Example:
"I’m really looking forward to meeting you and starting our semester together. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions or anything you want to discuss about our room and living arrangements!"
I hope this helps! Remember, the best way to make a connection is by being yourself! Everyone's in the same boat and likely just as worried about making a good first impression.
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